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  • Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

    Brandon Siler on Brain Health, Suicide Prevention, and Breaking the Stigma for Men

    23/06/2026 | 45 min
    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes conversations about suicide loss, suicide attempts, depression, addiction, trauma, and mental health treatment. Please take care of yourself while listening.
    If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 in the U.S. or Canada for immediate crisis support. You are wanted. You are needed. And you do not have to carry this alone.

    For Men’s Mental Health Month, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with former NFL linebacker Brandon Siler for a raw, powerful conversation about brain health, suicide prevention, life after football, and the pressure men often feel to stay silent. Brandon’s story is a reminder that asking for help is not weakness. It is strength, survival, and sometimes the first real step toward healing.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Don’t let that soda shake up on you. Fizz that thing out before it explodes.” — Brandon Siler

    Episode Description

    For Men’s Mental Health Month, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome Brandon Siler, a former NFL linebacker, national champion, entrepreneur, mental health advocate, and straight-up wall breaker. Brandon’s story starts in Pine Hills, Orlando, where sports helped keep him focused, driven, and out of trouble. That path led him to the University of Florida, a national championship, and six seasons in the NFL with the San Diego Chargers and Kansas City Chiefs.
    But this conversation is not just about football. It is about what happens after the cheering stops.

    Brandon opens up about the devastating death of his teammate Javon Belcher by suicide, his own mental health struggles after leaving the NFL, and the hard truth that even the toughest people need help. He talks about the macho pressure placed on men and athletes, the stigma around therapy and treatment, and why real strength means raising your hand and saying, “I need help.”

    Through Legacy Pro Sports, Pure Recovery California, Love4Vets, and Siler Brain Clinics, Brandon now helps former athletes, veterans, and high performers access disability benefits, mental health care, brain mapping, neuro-feedback, and treatment built around their lived experiences. His mission is simple but massive: knock down the walls that keep people from healing.

    This episode is raw, hopeful, funny, and deeply human. It is a reminder that men’s mental health matters every damn day, not just during awareness months.

    Keywords: Brandon Siler, men’s mental health, suicide prevention, brain health, NFL mental health, athlete mental health, veterans mental health, neurofeedback, brain mapping, trauma recovery, addiction recovery, mental health stigma, therapy for men, depression support, crisis support

    Meet Our Guest — Brandon Siler

    Brandon Siler is a former NFL linebacker turned serial entrepreneur, mental health advocate, and founder of multiple mission-driven companies. Raised in Pine Hills in Orlando, he earned a scholarship to the University of Florida, became SEC Freshman of the Year, helped lead the Gators to a national championship, and went on to play six seasons in the NFL.
    After the death of a teammate by suicide and his own difficult transition out of football, Brandon shifted his focus to helping athletes, veterans, and high performers access the care, benefits, and brain health tools they need to heal and thrive.

    Business Websites

    Legacy Pro Sports: https://www.legacyprosports.com

    Pure Recovery California: https://purerecoveryca.com

    Siler Brain Clinics: https://www.silerbrainclinics.com

    Siler Clinics: https://www.silerclinics.com

    Love4Vets: https://love4vets.com

    Personal Social Media

    Instagram — Brandon Siler: https://www.instagram.com/brandonsiler40

    LinkedIn — Brandon Siler: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brandonsiler40

    Facebook — Brandon Siler: https://www.facebook.com/brandonsiler40

    X — Brandon Siler: https://x.com/BrandonSiler21

    Business Social Media

    Instagram — Legacy Pro Sports: https://www.instagram.com/legacyprosports

    Key Takeaways

    Asking for help is not weakness. It is one of the strongest things a man can do.

    Brain health matters, especially for athletes, veterans, and high performers carrying invisible injuries.

    Suicide prevention starts with honest conversations before the pressure explodes.

    Therapy, treatment, and support work better when people feel seen, understood, and safe.

    Brandon’s work is about knocking down walls so former players and veterans can access the benefits and care they deserve.

    Healing does not mean you never struggle again. It means you learn how to stop carrying it alone.

    Actionable Items

    Check in on the strong friend, the funny friend, and the extroverted friend. They may be carrying more than they show.

    Say the thing out loud before it becomes too heavy. Talk to a therapist, trusted friend, doctor, coach, or crisis line.

    Reframe mental health care as brain optimization. You are not broken. You are learning how to care for the most important part of you.

    References Mentioned

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org
    Legacy Pro Sports: https://www.legacyprosports.com
    Pure Recovery California: https://purerecoveryca.com
    Siler Brain Clinics: https://www.silerbrainclinics.com
    Love4Vets: https://love4vets.com
    University of Florida Football: https://floridagators.com/sports/football
    NFL Player Benefits: https://www.nfl.com/playerhealthandsafety/resources/frequently-asked-questions/player-benefits

    Important Chapters

    00:00:37 — Welcome to the Episode
    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome Brandon Siler and set the stage for a real conversation about mental health, football, healing, and the things men are often told to keep buried.

    00:01:35 — Brandon’s Journey from Pine Hills to the NFL
    Brandon shares how growing up in Pine Hills shaped him, how sports kept him focused, and how football eventually chose him.

    00:03:30 — Life After Football and a Teammate’s Death by Suicide
    Brandon opens up about the tragic loss of teammate Javon Belcher and how that experience pushed him to rethink his purpose after the NFL.

    00:06:10 — Brandon’s Own Mental Health Struggles
    He talks honestly about being in a dark place after leaving football and how hard it can be for NFL players and men to admit they need help.

    00:07:44 — Why Athlete-Specific Treatment Matters
    Brandon explains how one teammate’s struggle with alcohol, drugs, and mental health led him to discover treatment built for athletes who needed to feel understood.

    00:08:13 — Brain Mapping, Neurofeedback, and Healing the Root Cause
    The conversation turns to brain health, neurofeedback, biofeedback, red light therapy, and tools that help people see and work with what is happening in their brains.

    00:12:48 — Breaking the Stigma for Men
    G-Rex speaks directly about suicide prevention, asking for help, and why there is no shame in reaching out when you are struggling.

    00:14:24 — Brandon on Strength, Masculinity, and Speaking Up
    Brandon shares why men need to reject the “macho” stigma and understand that asking for help is a strength, not a failure.

    00:17:06 — Love4Vets and Supporting Veterans
    Brandon discusses his work with veterans, disability claims, mental health support, and why he felt called to help when he saw veterans facing similar struggles to athletes.

    00:22:58 — Chasing the Best Version of Yourself
    Brandon shares the powerful image he carried as a kid: looking in the mirror and chasing the best possible version of himself.

    00:30:02 — Suicide Attempts, Therapy, and Brain Optimization
    Brandon and G-Rex talk openly about suicide attempts, therapy, mistakes, healing, and why mental health care can be viewed as optimizing your brain.

    00:33:37 — Advice to His Younger Self
    Brandon reflects on faith, purpose, and what he wishes he had understood sooner when he was struggling.

    00:35:22 — The Hardest Lesson Brandon Had to Learn
    He shares the pain of realizing you cannot force someone to want better for themselves, even when you love them deeply.

    00:37:24 — Anxiety, Favorite Words, and Brandon’s Humor
    The episode lightens up with Brandon’s anxiety sound, his favorite word, his least favorite word, and a hilarious explanation of why exclamation points matter.

    00:41:43 — Final Message for Men’s Mental Health Month
    Brandon closes with a reminder to reach out, talk to someone, and let the pressure out before it explodes.

    Closing CTA

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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalHealthMonth #SuicidePrevention #BrainHealth #BrandonSiler #NFLMentalHealth #AthleteMentalHealth #VeteransMentalHealth #TherapyWorks #BreakTheStigma #MentalHealthRecovery #AddictionRecovery #TraumaHealing #Neurofeedback #BrainMapping #YouAreNotAlone

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out
    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.
    United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
    Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
    Worldwide: Find a Helpline
    Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub
    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
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  • Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

    Jason Lange on Men’s Mental Health, Vulnerability, and Why Every Man Needs a Men’s Group

    16/06/2026 | 44 min
    Jason Lange joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a real, honest conversation about men’s mental health, vulnerability, emotional isolation, and the healing that happens when men finally have a safe place to tell the truth. From growing up disconnected from his body and emotions to becoming a men’s embodiment coach, Jason shares why men’s groups can be life-changing for relationships, parenting, self-worth, and community.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:
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    Mental Health Quote

    “The greatest gift a man can give the world is to take responsibility for his pain instead of passing it on.” — Inspired by Jason Lange

    Episode Description

    Men are often taught to push through, suck it up, and keep moving as if nothing hurts. The problem is, all that unspoken pain has to go somewhere. In this episode, Jason Lange joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about men’s mental health, vulnerability, emotional embodiment, and why men need spaces where they can stop performing and start telling the truth.

    Jason opens up about growing up in a home where physical closeness, emotional language, and open conversations about feelings were missing. As a teenager and young adult, that disconnection showed up as anxiety, shame, numbness, and difficulty building intimacy. His healing began when he found men’s groups and somatic therapy, where he learned how to reconnect with his body, name his emotions, and be witnessed by other men without judgment.

    This conversation hits some deeply human stuff: male isolation, sensitivity in boys, healthy masculinity, fatherhood, asking for help, and the pressure men carry to always appear strong. Jason breaks down why emotions often begin in the body, why “I’m fine” is not a full emotional vocabulary, and why vulnerability does not make a man weak. It makes him more honest, more grounded, and more capable of showing up for the people he loves.

    Whether you are a man trying to reconnect with yourself, a partner trying to better understand the men in your life, or a parent raising emotionally healthy boys, this episode is a reminder that healing starts when we stop hiding from what hurts.

    Keywords: men’s mental health, men’s groups, vulnerability, emotional healing, male isolation, embodiment work, somatic therapy, fatherhood, emotional wellness, healthy masculinity, shadow work, men’s coaching, emotional intelligence, mental health podcast, personal growth

    Meet Our Guest — Jason Lange

    Jason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach who helps men stop going through the motions and start showing up fully in life and love. As the founder of Evolutionary Men and host of the Evolutionary Men podcast, Jason supports men in clarifying their purpose, deepening intimacy, doing shadow work, and building real accountability through men’s groups and embodied practice.

    Website: https://evolutionary.men
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolutionarymen/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/evolutionarymenswork
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@evolutionarymen
    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@evolutionarymen

    Key Takeaways

    Men’s mental health struggles are often tied to emotional isolation, shame, and not having the language to talk about pain.

    Men’s groups provide a safe space for men to be honest, vulnerable, challenged, and supported.

    Emotions are not just thoughts in your head; they often begin as sensations in your body.

    Sensitivity in boys is not a weakness. With the right support, it can become emotional intelligence, courage, and strength.

    Vulnerability does not mean falling apart. It can look grounded, steady, accountable, and powerful.

    Asking for help is one of the strongest things a man can learn to do.

    Actionable Items

    Take one minute each day to check in with your body and ask: “What am I feeling, and where do I feel it?”

    Find one trusted person, therapist, coach, or group where you can practice telling the truth without pretending you are fine.

    When anger, stress, or anxiety shows up, pause before reacting and name the feeling out loud.

    For parents, help kids build emotional language by naming what they might be feeling without shaming them for feeling it.

    References Mentioned

    Evolutionary Men: https://evolutionary.men
    No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover: https://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy.html
    John Wineland: https://www.johnwineland.com
    Tripp Lanier: https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com
    Ken Wilber / Integral Theory: https://integrallife.com
    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org
    Global Crisis Resources: https://findahelpline.com

    Important Chapters

    00:00:56 – Jason joins the show and introduces his mission: every man should be in a men’s group. He explains how emotional pain, isolation, and a lack of language around feelings contribute to the men’s mental health crisis.

    00:02:29 – Jason shares how he learned to communicate later in life after growing up in a home where touch, emotional closeness, and conversations about feelings were not part of daily life.

    00:04:45 – Jason talks about what pushed him to seek help in his 20s, including the pain of feeling disconnected, anxious, and ashamed of being a late bloomer.

    00:08:02 – The conversation turns to family healing as Jason explains how he changed his relationship with his mother and processed unresolved anger toward his father before his passing.

    00:11:29 – Jason breaks down how somatic work and men’s groups helped him reconnect with his body, understand emotions, and move beyond the limited vocabulary of “good, bad, and fine.”

    00:15:53 – G-Rex and Jason discuss raising emotionally aware boys and why teaching emotional language early can help young men grow into healthier adults.

    00:21:09 – Dirty Skittles asks how to help her son see sensitivity as a superpower instead of a weakness. Jason explains healthy masculinity, rites of passage, role modeling, and the importance of emotionally grounded men.

    00:29:28 – Jason talks about when boys and young men can begin benefiting from male mentorship, nature-based programs, emotional role models, and a healthy community.

    00:33:02 – Jason shares how men’s groups have shaped him as a father, husband, and community member by giving him a place to restore himself and return home more present.

    00:36:24 – Jason explains why taking responsibility for pain is one of the most powerful things men can do for themselves, their families, and the world around them.

    00:37:20 – Jason reflects on what he would tell his younger self: relax, trust the path, and get better at asking for help.

    00:38:36 – Jason shares one of his hardest lessons: the work never really ends, but healing becomes easier when we stop trying to “fix” ourselves and keep showing up.

    00:41:09 – Jason discusses his self-care practices, including men’s groups, nature, hiking, saunas, massages, solo movie dates, sleep, movement, and eating well.

    00:42:41 – Jason shares where listeners can find him and how men can connect with local or virtual men’s groups through Evolutionary Men.

    Closing CTA

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out
    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.
    United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
    Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
    Worldwide: Find a Helpline
    Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub
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  • Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

    Dominic Petty on Healing Relationship Trauma, Self-Acceptance, and Finding Inner Peace

    11/06/2026 | 46 min
    What happens when an engineer’s brain meets the messy, beautiful chaos of human relationships? In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Dominic Petty to talk about trauma-informed coaching, emotional intelligence, self-acceptance, and why sometimes the most powerful thing you can say is absolutely nothing.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:
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    Mental Health Quote

    “Your baseline is peace and calm. Anything else is just where life has taken you.” — Inspired by Dominic Petty
    Episode Description

    Dominic Petty didn’t start out planning to become a coach. With an engineering degree from Stanford, an MBA from Wharton, and a career built around solving complex problems, he spent years using logic, structure, and strategy to make sense of the world. But life had other plans, boo.
    In this thoughtful and unexpectedly funny conversation, Dominic joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about how his path shifted from engineering and consulting into trauma-informed mindset, intimacy, and relationship coaching. He shares how learning emotional intelligence changed the way he led people, listened to people, and eventually helped people untangle the relationship patterns keeping them stuck.

    Dominic breaks down why so many high achievers are running on insecurity, why self-acceptance is often the missing piece in relationships, and how silence can sometimes be the wisest damn answer in the room. He also explains how emotions are data, not identity — and why returning to a baseline of peace takes awareness, practice, and a willingness to stop making parts of yourself wrong.

    This episode is for anyone who has ever felt broken, too much, not enough, or trapped in the same unhealthy cycles. Dominic reminds us that healing is not about forcing someone else to change. It is about waking up to yourself, learning what your emotions are trying to teach you, and choosing a relationship with yourself that does not run on shame.

    Keywords: Dominic Petty, relationship trauma, self-acceptance, inner peace, emotional intelligence, trauma-informed coaching, relationship healing, mindset coaching, intimacy coaching, anxiety, emotional awareness, healthy relationships, shadow work, self-compassion, mental health podcast

    Meet Our Guest — Dominic Petty

    Dominic Petty is a trauma-informed Mindset, Intimacy, and Relationship Coach known as the Inner Peace Advisor. Through his Relationship Enlightenment Method, Dominic helps clients heal emotional wounds, break unhealthy relationship cycles, and move from feeling unworthy or stuck into deeper self-acceptance and connection.
    He holds a Bachelor of Science in Engineering from Stanford University and an MBA from the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. His work blends relationship coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Theta Healing, Erotic Blueprints, Enneagram, Shadow Work, and lived experience.

    Website: https://explorewithdominic.com

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/innerpeaceadvisor

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dominicpetty

    Email: dominic@innerpeaceadvisor.com

    Key Takeaways

    Self-acceptance is often the missing bridge between high achievement and real emotional peace.

    Emotions are information, not identity — you can feel them without becoming them.

    Healing relationship trauma starts with noticing your patterns instead of blaming the other person for all of them.

    Sometimes silence is not avoidance; sometimes it is wisdom wearing sweatpants.

    High achievers often use insecurity as fuel, but that kind of fuel burns dirty and eventually wears people down.

    Inner peace is not passive. It takes active presence, emotional awareness, and consistency.

    Actionable Items

    Before reacting in a tense conversation, ask yourself: “Will what I’m about to say improve on silence?”

    When a strong emotion shows up, name it, feel it, and ask what story is sitting underneath it.

    Practice five minutes of quiet presence each day. No pressure to be perfect — just show up consistently.

    Important Chapters

    00:00:37 – Welcome to the episode
    G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome listeners back and introduce Dominic Petty, setting the stage for a conversation about mindset, relationships, and emotional healing.

    00:01:08 – Dominic’s geographic independence and coaching path
    Dominic shares how he built a work-and-travel lifestyle and how an unexpected conversation with a friend nudged him toward coaching.

    00:03:27 – From engineering to emotional intelligence
    Dominic talks about his engineering and consulting background, and how managing people taught him that leadership requires genuine curiosity and connection.

    00:05:52 – Relationship coaching and seeing unhealthy patterns
    Dominic explains how he has always noticed relationship dynamics and why he now uses a deeper framework to help clients understand what is really going on.

    00:08:30 – The power of silence in relationships
    Dominic shares the advice that he should wear a shirt saying “I don’t know anything” when talking to his partner — and why silence can be your friend.

    00:11:38 – Why people are the most fascinating puzzle
    He describes coaching as joining clients inside a maze they built, then helping them find their own way out without forcing them.

    00:14:29 – Relationships as containers for awakening
    Dominic reframes relationships as places where people learn what they need to release, heal, and integrate within themselves.

    00:21:58 – Insecurity, high achievement, and self-acceptance
    Dominic explains how many high performers run on insecurity and why that fuel can create anxiety, depression, frustration, and strained relationships.

    00:28:55 – Moving from the head to the heart
    The conversation shifts into emotional awareness, presence, and how emotions can be treated as valuable data instead of personal failure.

    00:31:15 – Returning to peace and calm
    Dominic breaks down the idea that peace is our baseline and that emotional regulation is about learning how to return to it.

    00:34:17 – Meditation, consistency, and meeting people where they are
    He shares why meditation can help, why consistency matters more than intensity, and how coaching has to fit the person in front of him.

    00:37:11 – Advice to his younger self
    Dominic gives a funny and honest answer about fitness, confidence, and the power of “pretty privilege.”

    00:38:45 – The hardest lesson: shut up
    Dominic shares that one of his biggest life lessons was learning he does not have to say everything he sees or knows.

    00:41:11 – Anxiety’s theme song and favorite words
    Dominic answers G-Rex’s signature questions, including his made-up anxiety theme song and his love for the words “boo” and “love.”

    00:43:56 – Where to find Dominic
    Dominic shares how listeners can connect with him through email and Instagram.

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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #DominicPetty #InnerPeaceAdvisor #RelationshipHealing #RelationshipTrauma #SelfAcceptance #EmotionalIntelligence #TraumaInformedCoaching #MindsetCoach #HealthyRelationships #InnerPeace #EmotionalHealing #SelfCompassion #ShadowWork #AnxietyAwareness #HealingJourney

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out
    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.
    United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
    Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
    Worldwide: Find a Helpline
    Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub
    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
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  • Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

    Dr. Mark Sherwood: Becoming a Hope Dealer Through Functional Medicine

    09/06/2026 | 53 min
    What happens when a former pro baseball player, SWAT team officer, and naturopathic doctor turns personal pain into a mission to help others heal? In this powerful conversation, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Dr. Mark Sherwood to talk about hope, resilience, functional medicine, grief, mindset, and why healing has to include the whole damn person — body, mind, and spirit.

    Trigger Notice + 988 Crisis Reminder

    This episode includes discussion of suicide loss, grief, depression, crisis support, and emotional trauma. Please listen with care. If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 in the United States to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. You are not alone, and help is available right now.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

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    We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:
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    Mental Health Quote

    “Just a little glimmer of hope is like light — it can cancel out all levels of darkness.” — Inspired by Dr. Mark Sherwood

    Episode Description

    In this episode, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Dr. Mark Sherwood, a naturopathic doctor, author, speaker, filmmaker, former professional baseball player, and retired Tulsa police officer. And let’s just say, Mark has lived a few lives in one lifetime.

    Mark opens up about being adopted, chasing a childhood dream all the way to professional baseball, serving on the SWAT team, and eventually finding his way into functional medicine. But this conversation goes way deeper than career pivots. Mark shares how the suicide loss of his mother became a defining moment in his life, pushing him to become what he calls a “hope dealer” — someone committed to bringing light into the darkest places.

    Together, they talk about how physical health and mental health are deeply connected, why our words and thoughts matter, and how people can accidentally start identifying with their diagnosis instead of their humanity. Mark also shares honest wisdom about forgiveness, boundaries, faith, resilience, self-worth, and learning to love yourself in a healthy way.

    This episode is raw, hopeful, and packed with reminders that healing is not about pretending everything is fine. It is about getting back up, choosing hope when life gets ugly, and remembering that you are more than your pain, your diagnosis, or the hardest chapter of your story.

    Keywords: Dr. Mark Sherwood, functional medicine, mental health podcast, emotional wellness, resilience, hope dealer, suicide loss support, whole-person healing, naturopathic doctor, trauma recovery, mindset healing, faith and mental health, self-worth, forgiveness, body mind spirit healing.

    Meet Our Guest — Dr. Mark Sherwood

    Dr. Mark Sherwood, ND is a naturopathic doctor, best-selling author, national TV personality, filmmaker, and co-founder of the Functional Medical Institute in Tulsa, Oklahoma, alongside his wife, Dr. Michele Neil-Sherwood, DO. His work focuses on root-cause healing and helping people understand the connection between physical health, mental wellness, mindset, and purpose.

    Before medicine, Dr. Sherwood was a professional baseball player, Oklahoma state and regional physique champion, and a 24-year veteran of the Tulsa Police Department, including 10 years on the SWAT team. His story matters because he has lived through pressure, grief, identity shifts, and trauma — and turned it all into a mission of hope and healing.

    Website: https://sherwood.tv
    Clinic: https://fmidr.com
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarksherwood
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marksherwood4E
    Additional Website Mentioned: https://drmarksherwood.com

    Key Takeaways

    Healing is not just physical. Your emotional, spiritual, and mental health all matter.

    Hope can be small and still be powerful enough to shift the darkness.

    You are not your diagnosis, your trauma, your depression, or your disease.

    Forgiveness is not about excusing someone else. It is about freeing yourself from bitterness.

    Resilience is built through hard things, not by avoiding them.

    Learning to love yourself in a healthy way may be one of the hardest and most important lessons.

    Actionable Items

    Watch your words. Notice when you say “my depression,” “my disease,” or “I can’t,” and try shifting that language toward healing and possibility.

    Build one small daily gratitude practice. Start with something simple: sunshine, movement, a good conversation, your breath, or one more chance to try again.

    Check your circle. Surround yourself with people who bring peace, honesty, accountability, and hope — not people who constantly drain your spirit.

    References Mentioned

    988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org
    Functional Medical Institute: https://fmidr.com
    Dr. Mark Sherwood: https://drmarksherwood.com
    Sherwood TV: https://sherwood.tv

    Important Chapters

    00:00:37 – G-Rex and Dirty Skittles welcome listeners into another stigma-breaking conversation about mental health, healing, and real-life resilience.

    00:01:00 – Dr. Mark Sherwood introduces himself as a naturopathic doctor and shares how his work focuses on root-cause healing for the whole person.

    00:03:06 – Mark talks about being adopted, childhood determination, and the English teacher who helped him believe he could become a professional baseball player.

    00:05:54 – Mark reflects on his years as a police officer and SWAT team member, including how first responder wellness became part of his mission.

    00:07:55 – Mark shares the heartbreaking loss of his mother to suicide and how that tragedy deepened his commitment to bringing hope to others.

    00:10:00 – The conversation turns toward faith, purpose, community, and the importance of having something bigger than yourself to lean on.

    00:13:00 – G-Rex opens up about her own crisis moment and reminds listeners that 988 is not just for suicide, but for anyone in emotional crisis.

    00:14:27 – Mark explains why spiritual, emotional, and physical health are interconnected and why he calls himself a “hope dealer.”

    00:19:05 – Mark talks about boundaries, emotional pain, forgiveness, and why letting go of bitterness is part of healing.

    00:23:09 – Mark shares how he moved from SWAT into wellness, police officer health, and eventually naturopathic medicine.

    00:27:15 – Mark explains the difference between the brain and the mind, and how thoughts, words, and environment can impact the body.

    00:31:35 – Dirty Skittles and G-Rex reflect on how sleep, self-care, mindset, laughter, and small daily choices affect emotional health.

    00:36:40 – Mark discusses medication, resilience, and why the body has to be supported instead of only silenced.

    00:47:01 – Mark answers what he would tell his younger self: be a giver, be a servant, and do not believe the lie that you cannot achieve something.

    00:47:56 – Mark shares one of his hardest life lessons: learning to love himself in a healthy way and build true self-worth.

    00:49:51 – Mark reveals that if his anxiety had a theme song, it would be “It Is Well,” because peace within yourself changes everything.

    00:52:08 – Mark shares where listeners can find him and his work.

    Closing CTA

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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #DrMarkSherwood #FunctionalMedicine #HopeDealer #Resilience #WholePersonHealing #EmotionalWellness #TraumaRecovery #SuicideLossSupport #988Lifeline #NaturopathicMedicine #MindsetHealing #HealingJourney #SelfWorth #Forgiveness #FaithAndMentalHealth #BodyMindSpirit

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    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.
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    Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
    Worldwide: Find a Helpline
    Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub
    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
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  • Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

    Nancy Gilette Pt. 2: Co-Regulation, Declarative Language, and Parenting Autistic Kids

    04/06/2026 | 59 min
    In part two, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles continue their conversation with Nancy Gilette and discuss practical tools parents can use to support autistic and neurodivergent children. Nancy breaks down co-regulation, declarative language, visual referencing, and why parents sometimes need a damn timeout too.

    Awards & Downloads Line

    Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries.

    Feedback Link Line

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    Mental Health Quote

    “Nothing good happens in dysregulation. Calm comes first, connection comes next, and problem-solving comes after that.” — Inspired by Nancy Gilette

    Episode Description

    Part two with Nancy Gilette gets into the tools parents can actually use when the house is loud, your child is overwhelmed, and everyone’s nervous system is one tiny inconvenience away from losing it.

    Nancy talks with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles about parent resistance, old-school parenting beliefs, and why the “just get it done” mindset can disconnect kids and adults from what really matters. Her message is clear: parenting autistic and neurodivergent kids is not about forcing compliance. It is about creating safety, building trust, and helping kids develop the skills they need for a life that feels good — not just one that looks good on paper.

    Nancy explains three core strategies she teaches families: visual referencing, declarative language, and co-regulation. She breaks down how declarative language shifts parents away from constant commands and gives children space to think, process, and participate. She also explains why co-regulation is not about controlling emotions; it is about creating shared safety when things feel too big.

    Dirty Skittles shares more about parenting Nugget, finding moments of real attunement, and learning how to honor both her child’s needs and her own nervous system. Nancy also opens up about Crohn’s, boundaries, art, rest, and learning to trust her body.

    This episode is a big, compassionate exhale for parents who are tired of being told to do more. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is slow down, connect, and stop parenting from panic.

    Keywords: co-regulation, declarative language, autism parenting, parenting autistic kids, neurodivergent children, RDI strategies, visual referencing, emotional regulation, parent regulation, autism support, ADHD parenting, nervous system support, parent-child connection, quality of life, compassionate parenting

    Meet Our Guest — Nancy Gilette

    Nancy Gilette is a certified RDI Consultant, mentor, and autism advocate who helps parents of autistic and neurodivergent children shift from crisis-driven parenting into connection-based support. Her work focuses on practical strategies, relationship development, parent education, emotional regulation, and helping families create a better quality of life together.

    Website: www.nancygilette.com
    Instagram: http://instagram.com/nancygilettecoaching
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nancy.gilette
    RDI Connect: https://www.rdiconnect.com

    Key Takeaways

    Parents need regulation tools too, because dysregulated adults cannot guide dysregulated kids.

    Declarative language helps children think, process, and participate instead of simply following commands.

    Co-regulation is not about controlling emotions; it is about creating shared safety.

    Visual referencing can help shift everyday moments from “me” to “we.”

    A child’s confidence grows through safe experiences, not pressure or forced performance.

    Quality of life matters more than checking every box society hands you.

    Actionable Items

    Try replacing one command with declarative language. Instead of saying, “Turn on the light,” try, “It’s dark in here, and I can’t see where I’m going.”

    When you feel yourself about to snap, take a parent timeout and name it calmly: “I need a break so I can come back better.”

    During a shared task, pause long enough for your child to refer to you visually before moving forward.

    References Mentioned

    Relationship Development Intervention: https://www.rdiconnect.com
    Nancy Gilette: www.nancygilette.com
    Dr. Ross Greene
    Dr. Daniel Siegel
    Dr. Gabor Maté
    Autism: A Different Perspective — Nancy’s Facebook community

    Important Chapters

    00:00:00 – Welcome to Part Two
    G-Rex opens part two by continuing the conversation around stress, the mind-body connection, and supporting families with more compassion.

    00:01:29 – When Parents Resist a New Approach
    Nancy explains how resistance often comes from old parenting stories, authoritative beliefs, and the pressure to “just get things done.”

    00:04:15 – Do Parents Need Their Own Timeout?
    G-Rex asks whether parents sometimes need to step away, and Nancy explains why parent regulation is essential.

    00:06:11 – Regulation in Action
    Nancy talks about what it means to catch yourself before losing control and how parents can model emotional regulation in real time.

    00:09:13 – Why Nancy Works With Parents, Not Just Children
    Nancy explains her parent-focused approach and why supporting the adults often helps the child thrive.

    00:10:28 – Visual Referencing, Declarative Language, and Co-Regulation
    Nancy introduces the three core strategies she teaches families to support authentic engagement and connection.

    00:16:35 – Dirty Skittles Shares a Connection Moment With Nugget
    Dirty Skittles describes a powerful moment of pausing, listening, and feeling the reward of true attunement with her child.

    00:22:45 – What Is RDI?
    Nancy explains Relationship Development Intervention and how it helps parents build practical skills to support their child’s development.

    00:30:39 – Nancy’s Daily Practices for Showing Up
    Nancy shares how rest, art, nervous system care, boundaries, and reducing social media help her stay grounded.

    00:42:45 – Advice to Younger Nancy
    Nancy reflects on what she would tell her younger self and the power of feeling supported instead of shut down.

    00:46:38 – The Hardest Lesson: Believing in Herself
    Nancy opens up about self-worth, professional identity, and learning to trust her own experience and body.

    00:53:27 – Where to Find Nancy
    Nancy shares how listeners can learn more about RDI, her work, and her autism support community.

    Closing CTA

    Subscribe, Rate, and Review!
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    #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #CoRegulation #DeclarativeLanguage #AutismParenting #ParentingAutisticKids #RDIStrategies #NeurodivergentKids #VisualReferencing #ParentRegulation #EmotionalRegulation #ADHDParenting #CompassionateParenting #AutismSupport #ConnectionBeforeCorrection #NervousSystemSupport #QualityOfLife

     
     

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    If You Need Support, Reach Out
    If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.
    United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
    Canada: Call or Text 988 — 988.ca
    Worldwide: Find a Helpline
    Mental Health Resources and Tools: The Help Hub
    Stay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles
    Official Website: goesoninourheads.net
    Facebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheads
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”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.
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