The Mel Robbins Podcast

In this episode, you’re going to receive the best dating advice no one ever told you. 
Whether you’re single, dating, in a relationship, or listening because you’re looking for advice for someone you love - this episode will change how you think about dating and love.
If you’re feeling discouraged, burned out, or you’re starting to wonder, “Am I ever going to find the right person?” or “Am I with the right person?” you’re not alone - and this episode is for you.
Today, Mel sits down with Logan Ury, who is a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist, world-renowned researcher, dating expert, bestselling author of How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love, and one of the most trusted voices on modern dating and relationships. Logan is a fan-favorite and Mel has brought her back on the show for a brand new episode all about dating.
She is going to give you the data, the psychology, and the tools you need to stop spiraling and start dating with confidence.
Logan breaks down why dating feels so hard in today’s world - and how to stop repeating patterns that keep you stuck. She will also cover topics like rejection, attachment, and commitment. 
After today, you will know:
-The 8 questions that instantly help you choose a better partner 
-What to text instead of ghosting - including a simple rejection text you can copy/paste
-How to have the “What are we?” conversation without begging, negotiating, or abandoning yourself
-How to break the anxious-avoidant loop that makes dating feel like chaos 
-What “the ick” really is - and how it keeps you single when you say you want love
-How to stop dating burnout by dating more sustainably 
After this episode, you’ll know how to build deeper connections, find and keep true love, 
and show up as a better partner. 
For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.  
If you liked the episode, check out Logan’s first appearance on The Mel Robbins Podcast: The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You
For more dating and relationship advice, listen to this episode with Matthew Hussey: The Brutal Truth About Relationships You Need to Hear
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In this episode, you are going to learn how to have amazing sex, deeper intimacy, and create real, lasting love. 
If you’re not having sex, or if sex feels like one more thing on the to-do list, this is what you need to hear right now.
Today, Mel sits down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, PhD, a University of Washington professor who teaches the most popular class on campus – which is about human sexuality.
There is a reason she is the country’s #1 sex professor. Her message is simple: nothing is “wrong” with you. 
You were just never taught how desire actually works, what turns you on, or how women’s pleasure is even designed. 
Dr. McNichols will change the way you think about arousal, orgasm, and intimacy, including the mind-blowing truth that women’s anatomy has been misunderstood for decades. Did you know the clitoris wasn’t fully mapped until the early 2000s?
This episode is the sex advice women actually need. 
This is not another conversation about how to please your partner, it’s not about performing, pushing through, or “fixing” yourself. It’s about pleasure, connection, and learning the skills that make sex feel good again at any age, and in real life.
 
You will learn:
-Why desire often shows up after you start, and what to do when you love your partner but “don’t feel like it”
-The biggest sex misconception keeping couples stuck (and how to rebuild without pressure)
-What most people never learned about the clitoris, arousal, and why penetrative sex alone isn’t the main path to orgasm
-How to stop faking orgasms and start communicating in ways that actually work
-The simplest way to rebuild intimacy when you’re exhausted, stressed, or parenting with zero privacy
-What to do if menopause, dryness, or pain is making sex feel impossible (and why you should not just “live with it”)
-How to get out of your head if body image has hijacked your sex life
-How to date again and rebuild confidence after a long dry spell, without forcing yourself into hookups
 
If you’ve ever thought, “I’m too tired,” “I love them but I’m not in the mood,” “It hurts,” “My body changed,” or “It’s been so long I don’t even know where to start,” this episode will give you language, relief, and a way forward.
 
Dr. McNichols’ book is You Could Be Having Better Sex and after this conversation, you will.
 
For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.   
If you liked the episode, check out this one next with urologist Dr. Rena Malik: The Most Important Sex Advice No One Ever Told You: Revamp Your Sex Life in 10 Minutes
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Some days, you don’t just feel off. You feel like you’re losing your control of everything. 
The routine is gone. The house is a mess. Motivation is shot. And suddenly one bad day turns into a week of feeling behind. 
This episode is the reset you need. 
Today Mel is sharing 5 simple, science-backed ways to create quick wins and real momentum – one tiny step at a time – so you go from overwhelmed and scattered to clear, grounded, and back in control. 
These aren’t big life changes. They’re small moves that make a surprisingly big difference to shift your direction so you can feel like you again.  
You’ll learn: 
-The 5-minute move that instantly quiets your mental noise and makes everything feel more doable 
-How tidying up your environment can make your whole brain exhale (and why it works) 
-The one physical shift that quietly changes your mood and momentum 
-Why waiting for motivation keeps you stuck, and what works instead 
-The simple “future you” trick that makes tomorrow feel 10% easier 
-The nightly question that sends you to bed with a smile, boosts your confidence, and rewires your brain for success   
If you’ve been stuck in a funk, feeling behind, procrastinating more than usual, or letting life stack up on top of you, this is the clean, one-day reset that will have you saying, “I’m back.” 
You can turn things around at any time.  
This is where you start.  
For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.   
If you liked the episode, check out this one next: 8 Things to Tell Yourself Every Morning
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Ever stood in front of the fridge thinking, “What am I actually supposed to eat to get healthy?” 
Today you are getting your answer. 
This episode gives you a simple way to decide what to eat to stay healthy without complicated math, crazy recipes, or “bro science”. 
In this episode, Mel sits down with Dr. Amy Shah, MD. Dr. Shah is a leading expert in the role nutrition plays in health, longevity, and hormone regulation. She has been in clinical practice for 22 years as a double-board certified medical doctor with specializations in nutrition, internal medicine, and immunology. She has a degree in nutrition and trained at Cornell University, Harvard University, and Columbia University. 
She is the author of two bestselling books about nutrition, hormones, and lifestyle changes, including her newest book, Hormone Havoc. 
She’s also one of your favorite experts to ever appear on this show – and today she’s back with a brand new episode to give you a simple, science-backed framework you can remember even on your busiest day. 
It’s called 30/30/3. 
It’s designed to help you feel better fast, support your hormones, stabilize your energy, and make meals simpler without tracking, obsessing, or living on willpower. 
Mel and Dr. Shah talk about why these matter for women’s bodies and hormones, how to make it realistic with normal groceries, and what small shifts can start changing how you feel faster than you’d expect. 
By the end, you’ll know what to eat today to support your body, and the foods you should avoid. 
In this episode, you’ll learn:
-The 30/30/3 protocol: 30g protein in your first meal, 30g fiber per day, 3 probiotic foods daily 
-Why protein is for more than muscles: it supports mood, focus, gut lining, and energy and cuts your cravings 
-The quick label trick to spot foods that claim protein but don’t deliver 
-Common “health foods” that quietly sabotage your goals. 
-How fiber impacts hormones, inflammation, and brain health 
-The probiotic foods that actually count (and why probiotic pills often don’t work) 
-Tiny food upgrades that can help your gut health improve quickly 
-How to eat healthy without tracking your life or living on salads. 
Almost all “healthy eating” advice is either confusing, unrealistic, or focused on getting smaller, not getting stronger, happier, and energized.
This is a simple, research-backed roadmap that makes healthy eating finally feel doable.
 If you want clarity, simplicity, and a plan you’ll remember tomorrow, start here. 
For more resources related to today’s episode, click here for the podcast episode page.  
If you liked the episode, check out this one next: The Body Reset: How Women Should Eat & Exercise for Health, Fat Loss, & Energy
To learn more about Pure Genius Protein, which is discussed in the episode, click here.
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This episode is for you: the person holding everything together. 
If your days are packed with work, caregiving, and nonstop demands, this is what you need to hear right now. 
Today, Mel sits down with one of the world’s leading experts on time management, Laura Vanderkam. She’s a New York Times bestselling author, a researcher who’s studied thousands of real schedules, a mom of five, and a total realist about how busy life can get. 
Laura Vanderkam’s approach isn’t “do more.” Laura’s not selling hacks. She gives you a clearer map of your days and a few small changes that reduce the chaos and help you feel more in control.
When you’re maxed out, Laura says you don’t need “more time,” you need to stop spending your limited time on default. 
Laura helps you see the small, real openings in your week and she shows you exactly what to do with them so you feel less trapped and a little more in control. 
This is not a lecture about hustling harder or optimizing your life. It’s a practical reset that will help you feel less behind and it will lighten your load fast. 
You will:
-Find hidden pockets of time already in your schedule
-Choose what matters most (without guilt)
-Use one habit that creates more breathing room
-Make space for what you keep putting off (even with a full-time job)
-End your day with more energy instead of more exhaustion
If you’ve ever thought, “I have no free time,” “I’m always behind,” or “I don’t even know where to start,” this episode will change the way you look at your week and help you take back a little more control.
Because when your time feels calmer, everything feels a little more doable.
And when you learn to take control of your time, you start taking control of your life. 

For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. 
If you liked the episode, check out this one next: If You’re Feeling Overwhelmed, You Need to Hear This
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