Do You F*cking Mind?

In this episode, the speaker delves into the concept of attachment and how it can cause suffering in our lives. We're often told to "let go" or "detach" from things that are causing us pain, but what does that really mean? Is it about caring less or loving less? Not quite. Attachment is not the enemy, but rather our unhealthy attachment styles that can lead to anxiety, fear, and grief.
Attachment is not just about relationships, but also about our attachment to physical objects, places, and even our identities.
I talk about studies that show the effectiveness of attachment security priming in improving positive emotions and reducing negative emotions. And how we can apply this concept to our own lives by identifying what we're attached to, where we stand in relation to it, and how we can use perspective to change our attachment.
If you're struggling with attachment and the pain it can cause, this episode is a must-listen.
Studies cited in episode
- The effectiveness of attachment security priming in improving positive affect and reducing negative affect: A systematic review. PMID: 32033183

- Long term effects of secure attachment priming on mental health in a stressful period of working adults. DOI https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-025-07842-8
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In today's episode, I am gonna share with you a tool to help you manage your anxiety, improve your focus, and boost your creativity: the brain dump. This simple technique can help you clear your mind, reduce stress, and feel more in control of your life.
This is an essential tool for tackling anxiety and overwhelm. By writing down everything that's on your mind, you can process your emotions, identify patterns, and create a plan to tackle your tasks and goals.
By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the tools and confidence to take control of your thoughts, emotions, and tasks, and start feeling more calm, focused, and productive.
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In this episode, I give you 10 ways to improve your critical thinking skills and become harder to manipulate, no matter who you are dealing with.
The ep covers a range of topics, from the dangers of loaded analogies and the importance of distinguishing between familiarity and understanding, to the pitfalls of extreme black and white thinking and the halo effect.
By the end of the ep you will have a better understanding of how to navigate complex conversations and make more informed decisions.
If you're looking to improve your critical thinking skills and become more confident in confrontation, this episode is a must-listen. So, tune in to this episode and discover how to become a more critical thinker and a more confident, empowered human BEAN.
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From olympic medals to starting again
Is my best friend gaslighting me?
How to feel complete as a person.

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Danke!
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Feeling Overwhelmed? Discover the 5 Simple Steps to Stop Spiralling!
Have you ever found yourself in a state of emotional overwhelm, feeling like you're spiraling out of control? You're not alone. We've all been there, and it's normal to feel like you're drowning in a sea of stress and anxiety. But it is possible to break free from this cycle and find a sense of calm and clarity.
In this episode, I share with you five simple yet powerful steps to help you stop spiralling and regain control of your emotions.
Hope you try it and it helps.
Alexis
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