What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

This Deep Dive series revisits some of our past episodes about how to have tough conversations with our kids.

How do we talk to our kids about all the complicated topics our world presents them with? Dr. Robyn Silverman, child and teen development specialist, is the author of the bestselling book ⁠How to Talk to Kids About Anything⁠ and host of the podcast ⁠How to Talk to Kids About Anything⁠, gives us scripts for having hard conversations with our kids.

In this interview Dr. Silverman, Amy, and Margaret discuss:

The downside to parents not talking to kids about hard things

The biggest mistakes parents make when talking to kids

Why tough conversations are worthwhile for reasons that go far beyond what might be discussed

Here's where you can find Dr. Silverman:

⁠DrRobynSilverman.com ⁠

@DrRobynSilverman on socials

Buy HOW TO TALK TO KIDS ABOUT ANYTHING: ⁠https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781728246987⁠

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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Most days, Ellen Skrmetti's house is a little cattywampus—something, somewhere, is going to be a tad askew. And these days, what's most likely to be cattywampus might be her hair— or her hormones.

In this hilarious interview, Ellen tells us about her new memoir CATTYWAMPUS, and how her comedy, her family, and her intergenerational friendships keep her sane through all of life's ups and downs.

Amy and Ellen discuss:

some very Southern and ladylike ways to say "no"

whether one can have a "little bit of cancer"

why it's worth the work to have female friends in all stages of life

why we can't wait until it's "convenient" to pursue our dreams

Here's where you can find Ellen:

https://ellenskrmetti.com

Buy CATTYWAMPUS: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781546011248

@ellen.skrmetti on FB

@justskrmetti on IG and TikTok

@ellenskrmetti on YouTube

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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When family routines fall apart, it can feel overwhelming to attempt a reset. But getting things "back to one" is possible. In this episode, we answer a listener’s question about how to get routines and household expectations back to normal after a chaotic stretch.

We discuss:

Why family systems can break down gradually or all at once

The questions to ask yourself before actually trying to fix anything

How clear expectations when things are calm can make it easier to know what you're returning to

How to respond to the pushback you will probably encounter

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Sege, R. D., and Siegel, B. S. for Pediatrics: Effective Discipline to Raise Healthy Children

CDC's Essential Tips for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers:
Tips for Relying on Routines and Rules

CDC's Essential Tips for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers:
Tips for Responding to Behavior

Harvard University Center on the Developing Child: A Guide to Executive Function

Amy Sutherland for the NYT: What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage

Our episode Creating Systems That Work

Our episode How to Make the Back-to-School Transition a Little Easier

Our episode When Kids Hate Transitions

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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This Deep Dive series revisits some of our previous episodes about dynamics with our parenting partners.

Have you and your spouse slipped into "angry partners at the 24/7 daycare" mode since your baby was born? Here's why relationships change after kids, and some real solutions that can help us get through it.

Amy and Margaret discuss:

The number-one reason relationships change after a baby is born

Helpful perspectives for maintaining sanity during early parenthood

Small steps for building back connection with your partner

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Jessica Grose for the NYT: ⁠Fighting Constantly after Baby? Read This⁠

Doss BD, et al. ⁠The Effect of the Transition to Parenthood on Relationship Quality: An Eight-Year Prospective Study⁠.

Alex Vance for Verywell Family: ⁠4 Ways To Focus On Your Relationship When the Kids Keep You Busy⁠

Jessica Grose for the NYT: ⁠Bickering More After Kids? Learn how to avoid the four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse.⁠

Christina Caron for the NYT: ⁠How to Reconnect with Your Partner After Kids⁠

⁠Judd Apatow: "Who Slept Worse?"⁠

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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How do we parent middle schoolers while simultaneously experiencing the PTSD of our own middle school years? Kristin Hensley and Jen Smedley , co-hosts of "I Mom So Hard," join Margaret to talk about their how new book, THE MIDDLE SCHOOL MOM'S SURVIVAL GUIDE, approaches puberty, changing friendships, and the increasingly high stakes of parenting tweens and teens with plenty of humor.

Margaret, Kristin, and Jen discuss:

How our own middle school experiences can color the way we parent

Why kids need room to make mistakes and figure things out for themselves.

Why being bored makes a kid more interesting

Parenting middle schoolers while navigating perimenopause, menopause, and aging parents

Here's where you can find Kristin and Jen:

https://imomsohard.com

Listen to the "I Mom So Hard" podcast

@imomsohard on FB, IG, YouTube, and Threads

@realimomsohard on TikTok

Buy THE MIDDLE SCHOOL MOM'S SURVIVAL GUIDE: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781668201916

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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