What Fresh Hell: Parenting, Relationships, and Making Life Better, with Two Funny Moms

What have 10 years of doing this podcast taught us about being better parents? In this, our 1,000th episode(!), we look back at the biggest parenting lessons we’ve learned from a decade of conversing with guests, listeners, and each other.

Thank you for listening and being on this parenting journey with us!

We also reference some of our favorite interviews:

our Fresh Take interview with Dr. Siggie Cohen

our Fresh Take interview with Dr. Lynyetta Willis

our Fresh Take interview with KC Davis

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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This Deep Dive series revisits some of our previous episodes about dynamics with our parenting partners.

We asked the listeners in ⁠our Facebook group⁠ about all the times they caught their spouses being awesome, and here are just a few: supporting their partners through difficult career choices. Reading up on issues that affect their kids. Learning how to do their kids' hair.

Awesome parenting partners, all!

Here are links to the resources mentioned in the episode:

⁠"Flying the Coop" episode from Reply All podcast⁠ (Margaret's rec)

⁠Our Fresh Take episode with Matthew Fray on Strengthening Our Relationships⁠

⁠The Explosive Child: A New Approach for Understanding and Parenting Easily Frustrated, Chronically Inflexible Children⁠, by Ross Greene

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What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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Trigger warning: On today's episode we will be discussing pregnancy loss, abortion, and maternal death. Please be advised if those topics are difficult for you.

What happens when pregnancy complications become a life-threatening emergency? Margaret’s sister Anne joins us to share her powerful story of nearly dying from a ruptured ectopic pregnancy.

Margaret and Anne discuss:

What an ectopic pregnancy is and why it can become life-threatening

How Anne's experience connects to the current landscape of abortion restrictions

The challenges doctors may face when treating ectopic pregnancies and other pregnancy emergencies, given current abortion bans

Why policies made far from the exam room can have profound consequences for women and their doctors

Here is the ProPublica article referenced in the episode, by Andrea Suozzo and Agnel Philip: Ectopic Pregnancy Deaths Have Nearly Doubled. It’s Worse in States With Abortion Bans.

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What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Margaret Ables and Amy Wilson.
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Why do some kids completely fall apart when it’s time to leave the playground, get ready for school, or switch activities? We dive into why transitions are particularly difficult for some kids and what parents can do to make them easier.

Here's what we discuss in this episode:

how anxiety, ADHD, autism, and OCD can cause unique issues with transitions

reframing a child’s behavior as a "signal" to help parents focus on the underlying problem

how parents can validate emotions while still setting clear boundaries

practical strategies for helping kids transition, including verbal "previews," visual schedules and timers, and predictable routines

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in the episode:

Our Fresh Take with Dr. Siggie Cohen

Our Fresh Take with Dr. Stacy Haynes

Katherine Martinelli for the Child Mind Institute: Why Do Kids Have Trouble With Transitions?

Claire Lerner for Psychology Today: The Trouble With Transitions

Kristine Cain for Building Bright Futures blog: Why Some Children Struggle More with Transitions Than Others

Lerner Child Development: The Trouble With Transitions: Why They Are So Hard For Some Kids And How To Help

Houston Family Therapy Associates: Why Kids Resist Transitions (and How to Help)

Lerner Child Development: How "Two-Great Choices" Prevents Power Struggles

Dr. Michael Sweeney

Visual timer for kids

Hourglass timer

Assessment of Lagging Skills and Unsolved Problems

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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This Deep Dive series is all about reducing the friction between ourselves and our kids when trying to communicate with them, whether it's yelling less, finding real reasons for constant defiance, or picking our battles.

Parenting is a series of everyday battles. But which ones are truly worth fighting? In this episode we discuss the Sisyphean nature of the overuse of the word 'like', to a cleaned-up playroom, to the unending struggle of getting tweens to wear pants—and which of these battles might be 1) winnable and 2) worth the work.

Some things really do matter for the long-term success of our kids (and peace of our households); some might be worth letting go in order to let our kids have that win once in a while. In this episode, we unpack how to tell the difference.

What Fresh Hell is co-hosted by Amy Wilson and Margaret Ables.

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