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Parenting The Adlerian Way

Alyson Schafer
Parenting The Adlerian Way
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  • Parenting The Adlerian Way

    224: Adlerian Parenting Methods And Why They Work

    29/06/2026 | 1 h 14 min
    With his signature humour and relatable storytelling, Dr Dan Dalton discusses the important concepts of winning a child’s cooperation rather than forcing their obedience. He reminds us of psychologists Alfred Adler’s and Rudolf Dreikurs’ major concerns for social equality in all human relations, including children. We also discuss how the counselling tool of asking parents to review a day in the life of the family as a way to discover dynamics at play. Dr Dalton also explains the 4 levels of discouragement and using parental emotions as the diagnostic clue to the purposiveness of the child’s behaviour.

    You can find Adlerian counselling services at Dalton and Associates here.

    Other Adlerian organizations we mentioned were:

    NASAP
    ICASSI
    IAIP
    Adler Graduate School


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    Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

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    223: “Breaking The Boy Code” With Author & Psychotherapist Katie Hurley

    08/06/2026 | 46 min
    “Breaking the Boy Code” is Dr Katie Hurley’s latest book, following the success of the award-winning “No More Mean Girls”. In this episode, Katie discusses how boys are socialized into a narrow description of manhood that is detrimental to their well-being. While that issue is not new – the “man-o-sphere” has created a world of social influencers who insidiously influence our young sons pushing them down a funnel of increasingly more severe beliefs about what it is to be a man including wealth, physique, dehumanizing women for sex / ra*pe. Katie has studied this system and explains how this online system is akin to brainwashing people into a religious cult. We discuss what a parent can do to help prevent and respond to this concerning situation.

    Buy Katie’s book “Breaking The Boy Code” here.

    Follow Katie on IG: @drkatiehurleylcsw

    Dr Hurley’s website can be found here.

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    Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!

    Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

    Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.
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  • Parenting The Adlerian Way

    222: Parenting Q & A with Alyson Schafer

    25/05/2026 | 24 min
    Q1. Teen daughter home from uni assumes she can just take my car anytime.

    Q2. 4 year old daughter is stealing and lying.

    Q3. When should you start allowance?

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    Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

    Check out more free parenting advice on my blog at www.alysonschafer.com

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    221: The Negative Impact of Screen Time on Children

    18/05/2026 | 32 min
    Margot Denomme is my guest on this episode, and she brings her 26 years of experience as a Crown Attorney where she saw first-hand how low self-esteem and social media can harm children, leading to mental health issues, bullying and legal troubles.

    She discusses the importance of parents’ taking collective action to bring about the changes needed to protect our vulnerable children. She has founded an organization called “Raising Awareness About Digital Dangers” (RAADD) which offers a host of resources for youth and their parents, including her book “The Smart Phone Guide”.

    Check out her book and all the resources at RAADD: https://raadd.ca/

    You can find Margot Demonne’s RAADD movement of “Control The Scroll” on IG at @RAADDMovement

    And Margot herself on LinkedIn

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    Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!

    Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

    Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.
    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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    220: Your Child Is Not Their Weight - Parenting in a Size Obsessed World

    11/05/2026 | 39 min
    Do you worry about your child’s weight and wonder if you are doing the right thing in how you encourage them to eat better and exercise more? Turns out sometimes so-called helpful prompts are not helpful. In fact, they could make matters worse. But what is a parent to do? Watch will their kiddo eats a bag of chips while gaming the day away?

    I had the privilege of discussing the book, “Your Child Is Not Their Weight: Parenting in a Size-Obsessed World”, with the authors, Dr Joey Skelton and Dara Garner-Edwards. Their research at the Brenner FIT Program, and their approach in the book, recommends that we don’t focus on weight, but rather we need to emphasize a strong family connection, tackling lifestyle choices together as a family, and utilizing planning and structure with involvement from the children. Listen in to learn more!

    Check out more resources at Dr Skelton’s website
    www.BrennerChildrens.org/BrennerFIT

    You can find Dr Skelton on social media here:

    X: @DrJoeySkelton
    Bluesky: @drjoeyskelton.bsky.social
    Instagram: @brenner_fit
    Facebook: Brenner FIT

    And purchase the book here:
    Your Child Is Not Their Weight – Parenting in a Size Obsessed World

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    Thank you to FeedSpot for selecting “Parenting the Adlerian Way” as the #1 parenting podcast in Canada two years in a row!

    Do you have a parenting question for me? Send it to hello@alysonschafer.com and I’ll answer (anonymously) on an upcoming Q&A podcast.

    Sign up for my monthly newsletter at www.alysonschafer.com and receive my “Responsibilities By Age” pdf.

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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À propos de Parenting The Adlerian Way
Join internationally acclaimed parenting expert Alyson Schafer every Monday as she answers your parenting questions. Without judgement and backed with easily understandable theory and research, she’ll offer up actionable solutions you can implement immediately. Alyson puts the “sense" back into "common sense parenting" with her warm, inspiring and informed Adlerian approach. Alyson is the author of three best selling parenting books with HarperCollinsCanada including; “Breaking The Good Mom Myth” “Honey, I Wrecked The Kids” and Ain't Misbehavin’” and the go-to expert for national media outlets.Send Alyson your parenting question to alyson@alysonschafer.com with #AskAlyson in the subject line or to @alysonschafer on any of her social media platforms. Questions will be answered anonymously. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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