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This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most quietly devastating posts we've ever covered 😭🎙️

15 years of friendship.8 year relationship. 2.5 years engaged.

She brought up her discomfort about their dynamic more than once while she was still with him. She was told she had nothing to worry about. She trusted them. 💕

They broke up. He moved out.

Less than 4 months later her best friend of 15 years hooked up with her ex. 💀

And the part she can't shake?

It doesn't feel random. 😳

When she told mutual friends what happened most of them immediately understood without her having to explain much.

Her best friend says she's "spinning a narrative."

She says she's just connecting dots that were already there. 😭

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Whose side are you on? 👇

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Episode 123 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From whether working in entertainment warps your entire perception of reality, to mortgages making us genuinely boring people, to the real reason everyone is coming for Emma Grede right now 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

He has identified as gay his whole life.
He is in his 30s.
He is now questioning everything he thought she knew about herself. 😳

Steph & Tia handled this one with the care it deserved 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
11:38 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week
29:16 – Does Working In Entertainment Warp Our Reality?
35:37 – Are Mortgages Making Us Boring?
44:31 – Vent of the Week: Supermarket Loyalty Cards Are A Scam / Why Everyone Is REALLY Coming For Emma Grede 👀
01:02:05 – Reddit Realness: "Realising I'm Not Gay In My 30s" 😳
01:06:03 – Adult Finds of the Week

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This week's Reddit Realness has an update and the update has absolutely no chill 😭🎙️

4 years together. Engaged for one. They bought a house. They had plans. He thought it was the best relationship of his life. 💕

Then she started going cold. Distant. Disengaged. Quiet quitting the relationship until he had no choice but to end it himself. 💀

He came to Reddit for closure.

He wanted to understand why she couldn't just communicate. Why she let it get so bad. Why she didn't fight for them. 😭

And then the update arrived.

She had been talking to a man she met in French Polynesia. Every day. Multiple times. For months. 

He said he didn't think she cheated.

Then he found proof. 😳

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Drop your thoughts below 👇

Have you ever been quiet quit by someone you thought was fully in?

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Episode 121 is here and we came with absolutely everything 😭🎙️

The wins of the week are giving, the lies we've been caught out on are sending us and the vent of the week about post date reviews on social media has us fully divided 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

He pees on the bathroom floor. Every day.

She has asked him to stop.She has asked him to clean it up.

He does neither. 😳

Steph & Tia could not move on from this one and honestly neither can we 💀

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
12:25 – Steph & Tia's Wins of the Week
28:00 – What Is The Biggest Lie You've Ever Been Caught Out On? 💀
56:46 – Reddit Realness: "AITJ For Getting Upset That My Husband Keeps Peeing On The Bathroom Floor & Refusing To Clean It Up" 😳
59:22 – Vent of the Week: Post Date Reviews on Social Media? 👀
01:20:29 – Adult Finds of the Week

If you've ever had to (unfortunately) explain basic hygiene to a fully grown adult… this episode is for you 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness went somewhere we genuinely were not prepared for 😭🎙️

He loves his brother. Genuinely, deeply loves his brother. They are close. They are family. 💕

He also loves his brother's wife.

Not a crush. Not admiration. Love. Real, consuming, impossible love. 

And he has absolutely no idea what to do with that. 💀

Does he say something and destroy everything? Does he say nothing and carry this forever? Does he create distance and explain nothing?

There is no clean answer here and Steph & Tia did not pretend there was 🎙️

What would you do in his position? 👇

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro 
11:42 – Dilemma

If you've ever done something years ago that could detonate your entire present life… this episode is for you 💕

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