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This week's Reddit Realness went somewhere really tender 😭🎙️

She went on a first date. He was sweet. He walked her home in the rain. They talked about books. She felt safe for the first time in a very long time. 💕

And she's punishing herself for all of it. 😭

The way she talks about herself in this post is the part that Steph & Tia could not move past.

Drop your thoughts below 👇

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Episode 133 is here and we are not tiptoeing around anything this week 😭🎙️

We open with a conversation that needed to happen and then we get into the therapy conversation that Black women specifically have been waiting for someone to have honestly 💕

Finding a therapist who actually gets it. Who gets you. Who doesn't make you feel like you have to explain your entire cultural context before you can even begin to heal. 💀

And then there's the Reddit post.

She agreed to a threeway. She completely regrets it. 😭

Steph & Tia had absolutely no chill on this one 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – How Often Do Women In Their 30s Flick Their Bean? 👀
14:17 – Tia & Steph's Ls & Wins of the Week
24:38 – The Struggles Of Navigating Therapy As A Black Woman 💕
56:19 – Reddit Realness: "I Agreed To A Threeway & I Regret It" 😭
01:05:02 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

If you've ever agreed to something you immediately wished you hadn't…this episode understands. 💕

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Her neighbour's son has been flirting with her for a year 😳

She told her husband.

His reaction gave her the ick more than the neighbour ever could. 💀

Steph & Tia could not move on from this one 🎙️

Was the husband wrong or is she overreacting? Drop your verdict 👇

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Episode 131 is here and this week we have THREE Reddit dilemmas and not one of them has a clean answer 😭🎙️

From the struggles of maintaining friendships as adults, to the Ls and Ws of the week —

And then the Reddit posts. 💀

She believed he was cheating.He wasn't. She ended it. Now she knows the truth. Now she wants him back. He is not interested. 😳

Her husband's best friend is back in the picture. Her gut is screaming. She ignored it once before. Should she follow it this time? 💀

And then the one that annoyed us — He ghosted her after seeing her naked. 😭

Steph & Tia had zero chill across all three 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro / The Struggles Of Maintaining Friendships
18:49 – Tia & Steph's Ls & Wins of the Week
34:14 – Reddit Realness: "My Ex Dumped Me Because She Was Told I Was Cheating. She Now Knows She WasLied To & Wants Me Back.Not Happening." 😳
40:39 – Reddit Realness: "Husband's Secret Love? Best Friend Is Back In The Picture. Should I Follow My Gut This Time?" 💀
47:48 – Reddit Realness: "The Guy I’m Seeing Ghosted Me After Seeing Me Naked" 😭
58:38 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

Three dilemmas. Zero clean answers. All the Steph & Tia energy you need. 💕

Adult Finds of the Week 
Tia: https://shorturl.at/Evvar
Steph: https://shorturl.at/KiETy

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During her pregnancy something felt wrong 😭

Her gut was telling her something. She even had a nightmare about it.

He told her she was just anxious. She believed him. 💕

Years later he confessed. 😳

And everything she felt back then?

She was right. 💀

Now he wants forgiveness because at least he eventually told the truth.

She's not sure she can. 😭

Steph & Tia had a lot to say and none of it was gentle 🎙️

Is she overreacting or is this a dealbreaker? Drop your verdict below 👇

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