We Just Got Here

Episode 104 of We Just Got Here Podcast is unhinged in the best way 😭💀

Steph & Tia kick things off with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into chaos, including a wild neighbour group chat scandal that absolutely nobody was prepared for (yes… that kind of scandal).

The girls also get into:
The internet’s obsession with vabbing
Why the dating scene feels completely cooked
The rise (and menace) of AI videos
Hyper-femininity, dressing for yourself, and rejecting the male gaze
Tia’s emotional vulnerability, Steph’s maid-of-honour dreams, and classic oversharing

Things take a turn during Reddit Realness, where a listener asks how to recover after her boyfriend gave her a serious case of the ick 💔

As always, the episode wraps with Adult Finds of the Week and peak We Just Got Here banter.

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
08:28 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
10:04 – Neighbour Group Chat Update: ShtGate Edition*
26:03 – Let’s talk about vabbing
35:31 – The state of the dating scene
43:04 – The rise of AI videos
46:58 – Hyper-femininity & not dressing for the male gaze
50:45 – Is Tia scared of emotional vulnerability?
53:33 – Steph as the toxic maid of honour
01:08:23 – Reddit Realness: “My boyfriend gave me a serious case of the ick”
01:29:50 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of the Week: 
Tia: https://shorturl.at/hsesP
Steph: Available at your nearest Starbucks

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In this week's Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia unpack a dilemma that left us genuinely stunned 😳
A listener reconnects with a man she’s known for years and goes on what should be a normal third date… until she leaves the cinema to discover missed calls, texts, and DMs from his entire family and friends, all panicking because he wasn’t home by 8:30pm.
Things get even more awkward when he calls his mum on the spot, and she starts shouting down the phone. Instead of acknowledging how intense it all felt, he doubles down and insists it’s just a close family who “care about him.”So the question is 👀
Is this just a strong support system… or a massive red flag?
Steph & Tia break down boundaries, family dynamics, and when “close” crosses into too much.
👇 What would YOU have done?

Timestamp:
0:00 - Intro
06:50 - Dilemma

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Episode 102 of We Just Got Here Podcast gets painfully relatable 😳💔

Steph, Tia and Cashh kick things off with their Ls & Wins of the Week before diving into a big dating question:
Are people actually dating you… or the idea of who you could become?

The conversation unpacks what it feels like to realise someone is invested in your potential rather than who you are right now, and why that dynamic can quietly destroy relationships.
Things get even deeper during Reddit Realness, where an OP asks for advice after realising the man she’s dating only seems to like the version of her he imagines, not the real her.
As always, expect honesty, humour, and classic We Just Got Here chaos, wrapped up with Adult Finds of the Week.

⏰ Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
03:16 – Steph, Tia & Cashh’s Ls & Wins of the Week
42:14 – Are you dating for potential?
58:09 – Reddit Thread: How does it feel to be dated for potential?
01:13:06 – Reddit Realness: “He only likes the idea of me”
01:27:46 – Adult Finds of the Week

Adult Finds of The Week:
Tia: https://shorturl.at/vGvgS
Steph: https://shorturl.at/YP0Q6

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The girls return with a new weekly bonus episode for an extra dose of chaos and laughs exclusively on Patreon

This week on Reddit Realness, Steph & Tia unpack a devastating dilemma 💔

A listener writes in after discovering that during the early years of her relationship, her partner was secretly sleeping with another woman,  sometimes on the same day she’d just left his place. When she confronted him back then, he denied everything… only for her to later find the messages, photos, and proof still saved on his phone.

Now here’s the twist 😳

He proposed on Christmas Day, and she’s left questioning whether the entire foundation of their relationship was built on lies.
Steph & Tia react with honesty, humour, and zero tolerance for nonsense — breaking down betrayal, trust, and whether you can move forward when the past finally catches up.

👇 Would you stay… or walk away?

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