We Just Got Here

Episode 110 is HERE and we are NOT holding back 😭🎙️
This week Steph & Tia are back with another chaotic, honest and hilarious episode covering EVERYTHING — from the week's biggest Ls and Ws, to the countries we'd actually pack up and move to, to the thrush chat nobody asked for but everybody needed 👀
📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
01:40 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week + Countries We'd Actually Visit
26:31 – When Not Replying to Texts Becomes Your Whole Personality 😭
45:03 – When That Thrush Comes to Get You 💀
51:53 – Reddit Realness: "How do I tell my colleague I'm not interested without making it awkward?"
59:30 – Adult Find of the WeekIf you've ever left someone on read for 3 days and felt nothing… this episode is for you.

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In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a deeply personal relationship dilemma.
A 23-year-old woman is questioning whether she should end her five-year relationship after years of sexual struggles, porn addiction history, and feeling unwanted.
Her boyfriend says his issues have nothing to do with her — but after repeated moments of him struggling to stay hard and even asking to use porn during intimacy, her self-esteem has completely crumbled.
She’s dealt with body image issues, plastic surgery, and an eating disorder in the past — and now she feels like this relationship is undoing years of healing.
Is she selfish for wanting to leave?
Or is it valid to want to feel desired and confident in your relationship?
We unpack porn addiction, sexual performance anxiety, emotional impact, and whether love is enough when attraction feels uncertain.
Drop your thoughts in the comments:
Would you stay? Or would this be your breaking point?

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
05:25 - Dilemma

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Episode 108 of the We Just Got Here Podcast is messy in the BEST way.

Steph & Tia start with their Wins of the Week before diving headfirst into absolute chaos — from fighting for justice for Punch the monkey to unpacking the very real problem of dusty monkey baby dads 🥴
Things only get wilder as the girls rank the ultimate “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs (some of these are genuinely dangerous), followed by a Reddit Realness story that will have you SCREAMING: she laughed at his turn-on… and then blocked him 😭

And of course, Adult Finds of the Week makes its iconic return ✨

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
1:36 – Steph & Tia’s Wins of the Week
7:54 – Justice for Punch the monkey! / Dusty monkey baby dads
30:50 – “Mr Steal Your Girl” jobs
43:40 – Reddit Realness: “She laughed at my turn on and blocked me”
48:30 – Adult Finds of The Week
Expect unfiltered opinions, chaotic energy, and nonstop laughs.
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In this week’s Reddit Realness minisode, Steph & Tia react to a confession that left us speechless.
A man matches with a woman on Tinder, falls hard, and genuinely believes he’s found something real.
No red flags. No suspicious behaviour. No profile picture. No visits to her place.
Until one night… they run into her husband.
He claims he had absolutely no idea she was married with two kids, and immediately ends it in front of her husband. But months later, after she divorces, she tries to get back with him.
Now he’s carrying guilt for being part of something that broke up a family, especially because his own mum cheated on his dad when he was a child.
Is he responsible? Or was he just another victim of her deception?
We unpack guilt, accountability, accidental affairs and whether ignorance truly makes you innocent.
Drop your verdict in the comments.

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Welcome back to Episode 107 of We Just Got Here Podcast 💛

This week gets REAL.

We start with life updates and Steph & Tia’s Ls and Wins of the Week before diving into a heated conversation about polyamorous vs monogamous relationships… and whether Nick Cannon’s “colony” lifestyle is chaos or clarity 👀
Then in Reddit Realness, we react to a jaw-dropping dilemma:
A woman’s husband cheats on her… and when she confronts her mother-in-law for advice, she’s told she needs to “work on her marriage.”
The twist? Her father-in-law previously had an affair too.
Is this generational enabling? Internalised marriage loyalty? Or misplaced advice?
We unpack it all.
As always, we wrap up with Adult Finds of the Week:
Tia: Fresh mint tea
Steph: PALS & getting your health checks sorted

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⏰ Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro / Life Update
17:48 - Steph’s Ls & Wins of The Week
32:35 - Tia’s Ls & Wins of The Week
53:56 - Polyamorous and Monogamous Relationships?!/ Nick Cannon & His Colony
01:17:44 - Reddit Realness: AITA for asking my mother-in-law for advice on how she dealt with her husband’s affair after she said that I needed to work on my marriage when her son cheated on me?’
01:24:44 - Adult Finds of The Week 

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