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She's been with him for 4 years. Married for one. She had absolutely no reason to doubt her husband. 💕

A few months ago her husband had sex with his ex-wife. The woman who left him 10 years ago for someone else.

She only found out because her husband's ex is now pregnant.

And the ex's new husband isn't the father. 

Her husband is. 😳

When she confronted him he admittedeverything. His explanation for sleeping with his ex wife?

She asked him to. 💀

She's staying with her sister. Her brother is a solicitor who has found her a divorce lawyer. She feels broken. 😭

Steph & Tia get into it all🎙️

What would you do in her position? 👇

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Episode 125 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From the Love Island stan wars that are getting completely out of hand, to the diaspora conversation that had us fully in our feelings, to the Reddit post that we genuinely could not move past 👀

Because how do you find out your best friend of 14 years isn't having you as a bridesmaid?

Not a falling out. Not an argument. Just… not asked. 😳

And then there's the Adult Finds of the week — Tia is putting herself first and making time for herself 💕 and Steph has found the M&S raspberry and white chocolate cookies and she is not okay 😭

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
09:39 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week
30:57 – Vent of the Week: Love Island Stans & Diaspora Wars 👀
55:20 – Reddit Realness: "My Best Friend of 14 Years Isn't Having Me As A Bridesmaid & I'm A Bit Confused" 😳
01:03:41 – Adult Finds of the Week 💕

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This week's Reddit Realness is one of the most quietly devastating posts we've ever covered 😭🎙️

15 years of friendship.8 year relationship. 2.5 years engaged.

She brought up her discomfort about their dynamic more than once while she was still with him. She was told she had nothing to worry about. She trusted them. 💕

They broke up. He moved out.

Less than 4 months later her best friend of 15 years hooked up with her ex. 💀

And the part she can't shake?

It doesn't feel random. 😳

When she told mutual friends what happened most of them immediately understood without her having to explain much.

Her best friend says she's "spinning a narrative."

She says she's just connecting dots that were already there. 😭

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Whose side are you on? 👇

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Episode 123 is here and we went everywhere this week 😭🎙️

From whether working in entertainment warps your entire perception of reality, to mortgages making us genuinely boring people, to the real reason everyone is coming for Emma Grede right now 👀

And then there's the Reddit post.

He has identified as gay his whole life.
He is in his 30s.
He is now questioning everything he thought she knew about herself. 😳

Steph & Tia handled this one with the care it deserved 🎙️

📌 TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro
11:38 – Steph & Tia's Ls & Wins of the Week
29:16 – Does Working In Entertainment Warp Our Reality?
35:37 – Are Mortgages Making Us Boring?
44:31 – Vent of the Week: Supermarket Loyalty Cards Are A Scam / Why Everyone Is REALLY Coming For Emma Grede 👀
01:02:05 – Reddit Realness: "Realising I'm Not Gay In My 30s" 😳
01:06:03 – Adult Finds of the Week

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This week's Reddit Realness has an update and the update has absolutely no chill 😭🎙️

4 years together. Engaged for one. They bought a house. They had plans. He thought it was the best relationship of his life. 💕

Then she started going cold. Distant. Disengaged. Quiet quitting the relationship until he had no choice but to end it himself. 💀

He came to Reddit for closure.

He wanted to understand why she couldn't just communicate. Why she let it get so bad. Why she didn't fight for them. 😭

And then the update arrived.

She had been talking to a man she met in French Polynesia. Every day. Multiple times. For months. 

He said he didn't think she cheated.

Then he found proof. 😳

Steph & Tia had a lot to say about this one 🎙️

Drop your thoughts below 👇

Have you ever been quiet quit by someone you thought was fully in?

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